Unit 3. Ways of socialising

Unit 3 :WAYS OF SOCIALISING
MEMBERS GROUPS OF 1:

Trần Lê Trường Hiệp
Châu Ngọc Long
Cao Thế Công Toàn
Phạm Anh Trúc
Hà Minh Tú
Hoàng Uyên


Before you read
1.What are you the people in the picture doing?
2.What will you do and/ or say if
-you want to get your teacher’s attention in class?
-you need to ask someone a question, but they are busy talking to someone else?
To attract someone’s attention so that we might speak to that person, we can use either werbal or non-verbal forms of communication. Let us
look at non- verbal communication in English. Brobably the most common way of attracting someone’s attention is by waving. For example, if we are at a noisy party and see a friend xcome in the door about 20 mettres away, we might raise our hand and wave to her as signal that we see her.
But how hard can we wave in a situation like this? Suppose you are at the airport, and you see your brother get off the plane and begin walking toward you. If you are excited, you might jump up and down and wave as hard as you can to attract his attention. This is the instance where big , obvious non-verbal signals are appropriate.
while you read:

In most social situations where some informality is allowed, abrief raise of the hand and a small wave is fine. For instance, if you arewalking across the schoolyard and see your teacher approaching you, a small friendly wave to attract hi or her attention is appropriate.
Once you’ve got your friend’s attention, you shouldn’t point at the person or thing you want her to look at. A slight nod will do pointing at someone is usually considered rude. Of course, there are times when pointing is perfectly acceptable, such as when a teacher wants to get someone’s attention in class. The teacher often points to the student and says,”Dvavid, would you read the next sentence, please?” Pointing here is not impolite; it’s simply a way to get someone’s attention.


There are, however, some social situations where smaller non-verbal signals are more appropriate. In arestaurangt, for example if we want to attract the attention of our waiter, we have several choices. We can wait until he passes near us, catch his eye, and nod slightly to let him to came to our tavle. Or we can raise our hand slightly to show that we need assistance. We do not whistle or clap our hands to get the person’s attention. That is considered impolite and even rude.
WORD:
Verbal(adj) /’v3:bal/ : = lời nói
Non verbal(a) /non ‘v3:bal/: ko = ,ko thuộc về lời nói
Signal(n) /’signal/: tín hiệu
To get off ( xuống , ra khỏi )
Obvious(a) /’obvias/: rõ ràng,hiển nhiên
Whistle(v) /’wisl/: huýt sáo
Rude(a) /ru:d/ : thô lỗ
Nod slightly /nod ‘slaitly/: khẽ gật đầu
Brief(a) /bri:f/: ngắn,gọn( ở đây nghĩa là “vẫy tay nhẹ”) (trong bài á)
Point at( chỉ vào ai ,cái gì)
Assistance(n) /a’sistans/ : sự giúp đỡ
A) wait until he/she see you
b) raise your hand
C) come to he/she
d) call he/she name
who is millionare?
1)what is the best way for u to attract your teacher’s attention in class?
answer
A) say” u
b) hit him
C) sing a song
d) a,b,c are wrong
who is millionare?
2)what will u do if one guy try to attract your girlfriend by whistling(your girlfriend don’t like violence)?
answer
a) impolite
b) rude
C) it make he/she laught
d) a,b
who is millionare?
3)why shouldn’t u point at the person or thing u want your friend to look at?
answer
A) call his/her name
b) waving
C) come to them
d) a,b,c
who is millionare?
4)u are in a big party and your friend can’t see u,u can:
answer
A) hug
b) raise your hand
C) kiss in the cheek
d) shake hand
who is millionare?
1)what is the best way for u to attract your teacher’s attention in class?
answer
Thanks for your attention