Unit 3. Ways of socialising

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SOCIALISE
What are people in these pictures doing ?
shaking hands and waving with each other.
UNIT 3: WAYS OF SOCIALISING
Part A: Reading
UNIT 3: WAYS OF SOCIALISING
A- READING
Grade 12
Paragraph 1 :
To attract someone’s attention so that we might speak to that person, we can use either verbal or non-verbal forms of communication. Let us look at non-verbal communication in English. Probably the most common way of attracting someone’s attention is by waving. For example, if we are at a noisy party and see a friend come in the door about 20 metres away, we might raise our hand and wave to her as a signal that we see her.
Vocaburary :
socialise (v)
sociable (adj)
socialisation (n)
How are you ?
Verbal (adj) → spoken
(I love you.)
(I’m surprised.)
(Hello.)
non-verbal (adj) >< verbal (adj)
phi ngôn hữu ngôn
Attract someone’s attention (v)
Thu hút sự chú ý của người khác
Paragraph 2 :
But how hard can we gave in a situation like this ? Suppose you are at the airport and you see your brother get off the plane and begin walking towards you. If you are excited, you might jump up and down and wave as hard as you can to attract his attention. This is the instance where big, obvious non-verbal signals are appropriate.
What are the people in the picture doing ?
They are waving to say goodbye.
wave (v) : Vẫy tay chào ai
Jump up and down
Nhảy lên, nhảy xuống (nhảy cẫng lên)
Paragraph 3 :
There are, however, some social situations where smaller non-verbal signals are more appropriate. In a restaurant, for example, if we want to attract the attention of our waiter, we have several choices. We can wait until he passes near us, catch his eye, and nod slightly to let him know we would like him to come to our table or we can raise our hand slightly to show that we need assistance. We do not whistle or clap our hands to get the person attention. That is considered impolite and even rude.
Nod
(v): Gật đầu, cúi đầu
(n) Cái gật đầu, cái cúi đầu
A slight nod: (n)
Một cái gật đầu nhẹ
They are clapping their hands.
What are they doing ?
whistle (v) : huýt sáo
Rude (adj) : thô lỗ
polite (adj) : lịch sự >< impolite (adj) : mất lịch sự
Paragraph 4 :
In most social situations where some informality is allowed, a brief raise of the hand and a small wave is fine. For instance, if you are walking across the schoolyard and see your teacher approaching you, a small friendly wave to attract his or her attention is appropriate.
Ex: The school bus is approaching the bus stop
Approach (v) : tiếp cận
Paragraph 5 :
Once you have got your friend’s attention, you shouldn’t point at the person or thing you want her to look at. A slight nod will do. Pointing at someone is usually considered rude. Of course, there are times when pointing is perfectly acceptable, such as when a teacher wants to get someone’s attention in class. The teacher often points to the students and says, “David, would you read the next sentence please?” Pointing here is not impolite; it simply a way to get someone’s attention.
point at someone (v) : Chỉ tay vào ai
New words
socialise / socialize (v) // : hòa nhập xã hội
(n) : socialization
(adj) : sociable
2. attract someone’s attention (v) : Thu hút sự chú ý của ai
3. non – verbal /non ‘vз:bl/ (adj) : phi ngôn
>< verbal /’vз:bl/ (adj) : hữu ngôn
4. wave (v) : vẫy tay chào ai
5. suppose (v) // : giả sử
6. jump up and down : nhảy lên nhảy xuống (nhảy cẫng lên)
7. instance (n) // → for instance : thí dụ như
8. nod (v) : gật đầu, cúi đầu
(n) cái gật đầu, cái cúi đầu
A slight nod (n) : một cái gật đầu nhẹ
9. whistle (v) // : huýt sáo
10. clap (v) // : vỗ tay
11. rude /ru:d / (adj) : Khiếm nhã, thô lỗ
12. informality (n) /:m/ >< formality
13. approach /`prt∫/ (v) : đi đến gần
14. point at someone (v) : chỉ tay vào ai đó
Task 1 : Match a word in A with a phrase in B to make a meaningful expression.
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A. Attracting Attention : Non – verbal Cues
B. Attracting Attention by Waving
C. The Best Ways of Attracting Attention
Task 2 : Decide which of the three options below is the best title for the passage.
Key : A. Attracting Attention : Non – verbal Cues
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Answer the questions ?

1. What can we do when we want to attract someone’s attention ?
→ We can use either verbal or non- verbal communication.

→ Jumping up and down and wave as hard as you can.
2. What can considered to be big, obvious non – verbal signal ?
3. What can we do if we want to attract the waiter’s attention ?
→ We can wait until he passes near us, catch his eye, nod slightly to let him know we would like him to come to our table, or we may raise our hand slightly to show that we need assistance.
4. If we are walking across the schoolyard and see your teacher approaching you, What can we do to attract her attention ?
→ You can use a small friendly wave to attract his or her attention.
5. Why shouldn`t you point at the person or thing ?
→ Because it’s considered rude.
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Homework
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